Ruby A Pipes

A candle was lit by S. on September 23, 2018 10:07 PM

Message from Oregon

I only got to know Ruby for a short while about 10 years ago, she was kind, and had great energy. I'll never forget coloring the walls in the dirt room in her studio. I'm deeply saddened to hear of her passing.

Message from Sue Ardington

I was so saddened to learn of Ruby's passing just today. She was a precious person.

Message from A stranger in NZ

I didn't know Ruby personally, I only know her words. I've been following her blog for a couple of years, all the way from little New Zealand. I never interacted with her online, but I wish I had. I hope it's okay if I say now to you, her family and friends, what I really wanted to say to her:
When Ruby started writing at the beginning of this year about the things that made her smile, filled her with gratitude, reminded her that living was worth all the suffering, she shone such a bright light for me from all that way across the ocean. I was really struggling with depression at the time and her posts brought me back to the present, encouraged me to pay attention to the world around me, celebrate all the tiny beautiful moments.
After her last post and the silence that followed, I thought about writing to her often to ask if she was okay. I didn't. I wanted to acknowledge how she was keeping me afloat but I wasn't brave enough. I was a stranger, she was a stranger. I cried like she was a friend when I found out she had died.
Her impact on me was real and significant. She helped me stay alive. I'm so sorry you now have to carry on with life without her physically present in it. I hope you find at least three things each day that bring you comfort, peace and delight, like she did. I am so grateful for her words, and her courage to share them.

Message from Jean Lawson Farmer

Thoughts and Prayers for Ruby's Family. May God give you strength.

Jean and Merle Farmer

A candle was lit by Sue Robson on May 1, 2017 6:31 AM

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I am a follower of Ruby's blog. I am sad to hear of her passing. Her writings and musings stirred and inspired me... made me want to do better with my own commitment to blogging. Travel well dear Ruby! Journey on into your next adventure. You made a grand impression on me and many others. Thank you for your rawness and realness.

~ Sue

A candle was lit by Sue Robson of Santa Rosa, CA on May 1, 2017 6:22 AM

A candle was lit by Amanda Hawk on April 30, 2017 6:41 PM

A candle was lit by Danielle Brockman on March 16, 2017 2:15 PM

A candle was lit by Jen on March 16, 2017 5:15 AM

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I've been reading Ruby's blogs since last year and I truly can't believe this is real. I would like to send my condolences to her family and friends. Kindly email me if possible. I'm sure the hearts of all her readers and friends in wordpress are also disheartened the same way as I do.

Message from The Wrays

We were deeply saddened to learn of the loss of Ruby to those who knew and loved her. She was a sweet child with a big smile, which is how we will always remember her. We are so proud to see she grew into a lovely, caring young woman who will be deeply missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with her friends and family.

Expression of Sympathy

A DISH GARDEN WITH FRESH FLOWERS was sent on March 8, 2017

Ruby! A polar bear's a cat, right Miss you, Ingy

A candle was lit by Jackie on March 3, 2017 9:48 PM

A candle was lit by Jill Schwocho on March 2, 2017 9:47 PM

A candle was lit by Smitty on March 2, 2017 9:09 PM

A candle was lit by Carl and Sandy on March 2, 2017 7:32 PM

Message from Carl and Sandy Nuechterlein

Marsha, Larry, Loren, and Prairie,
My heart goes out to you at the loss of Ruby. What a beautiful young woman. I hope all of the wonderful memories you have of your daughter and sister will help with the grief. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

A candle was lit by The Millman family on March 2, 2017 5:56 PM

A candle was lit by Kelly Davidson on February 27, 2017 4:52 AM

A candle was lit by Kelley on February 22, 2017 7:26 PM

A candle was lit by Shelbyrae Anderson on February 22, 2017 11:56 AM

A candle was lit by Bill and Mona Anderson and family on February 20, 2017 9:31 PM

A candle was lit by Ryan Owen on February 20, 2017 3:22 PM

A candle was lit by Bobcat Smith on February 18, 2017 9:00 AM

A candle was lit by Brenda on February 18, 2017 8:12 AM

A candle was lit by The Schey family: Joe,Kelly,Devon,Thalen,Celestine,Dadrin on February 17, 2017 9:09 PM

Message from samuel Johnson

This was heartbreaking to see someone so young with so much promise go so early.I suffered with it for years till the good lord got a hold of me.Thank you Jesus for this tender reed.You must have needed a special angel.God Bless the survivors.

A candle was lit by Julie Stinson & Eric Schroff Family on February 15, 2017 10:17 PM

Message from Pat Owen

My heart breaks with yours on the loss of this precious, beautiful, talented, authentic young woman, the Ruby we loved so dearly. Her joyous smile and presence is truly unforgettable and inspiring.

A candle was lit by Pat Owen on February 15, 2017 9:48 PM

A candle was lit by Marilyn and Lloyd Pursley on February 15, 2017 8:10 PM

Message from Marilyn and Lloyd Pursley

I was just recently thinking about the times our girls spent together, such great times and memories. So very sorry to hear about Ruby's passing. You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers.

A candle was lit by Marlene Fowler on February 10, 2017 11:14 PM

Message from Robert Wertzler

I have been following Ruby's blog for some time and have greatly valued her brilliant, honest writing of her life and struggles, and her insights. I will miss her voice and presence in my world. I wish I could have known her in person. My deepest condolence goes to all her family, friends and loved ones.

A candle was lit by Keisha Grainger on February 7, 2017 7:30 PM

Message from Becky (Thomas) Trickey

Marsha and Larry, I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter! My thoughts and prayers are with you from IA.

Message from George Kemper

Looking forward to celebrating Ruby's incredible life in a few weeks. She was a lighthouse during the darkest times in my life. She brought out the best in me and helped me when I was at my worst. I cannot begin to describe the pain of losing her but I feel so fortunate and grateful to have known her for 15 years. Thank you for everything, Ruby.

A candle was lit by The Fujimoto's with much love.... on February 6, 2017 8:45 PM

Message from Ted Hensold

I am so glad to have had a bit of contact with Ruby in recent years & to know her as an adult. Such a bright, sweet soul! I admire the brave way she conducted her struggles with such openness and and honesty.

We are so very sad about this, and we are holding Ruby's family close to our hearts.

A candle was lit by Ted & Daya on February 6, 2017 7:37 PM

A candle was lit by Sarah Conrads on February 6, 2017 12:30 PM

A candle was lit by Theresa & Jay LaFrance on February 6, 2017 8:23 AM

Message from Dave and Sabra Horn - Alyssa's parents

We share in your sorrow and your tragic loss. May God give you comfort and strength.

A candle was lit by Leslie on February 5, 2017 2:36 PM

A candle was lit by Bobbi Manning on February 5, 2017 12:10 PM

Message from Theresa & Jay LaFrance

Remembering with you, the life of our precious Ruby. Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel. Thinking of you, wishing you hope in the mist of sorrow, comfort in the midst of pain. Love to you all, today and Always. Theresa & Jay LaFrance

A candle was lit by Jay & Theresa LaFrance on February 5, 2017 10:57 AM

A candle was lit by Christina Marin ♡ on February 5, 2017 10:26 AM

A candle was lit by Judy and Prentice Besore on February 5, 2017 8:21 AM

A candle was lit by Emily Roth-Dahl and family on February 5, 2017 7:51 AM

Message from Nola

So sorry for you loss, Aunt Marsha and Larry. Ya'll are in my prayers and thoughts alway!! Love you to the moon and back!!

A candle was lit by Nola and Seth Burney on February 5, 2017 6:37 AM

A candle was lit by Lauren Honemann on February 4, 2017 6:59 PM

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A candle was lit by Linda and Ross Austin. Hugs and love ya💖 on February 4, 2017 4:33 PM

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Message from Mary Bogdan Hensold

Dear dear Pipesies: We hold such sweet memories of Ruby in our hearts and find comfort knowing that she is at peace. What great spirit that girl had! What spunk! We were so lucky to have known this sweet daughter and sister of yours
Love and comfort to all of you. Fondly, Mary

A candle was lit by Mary Bogdan Hensold on February 4, 2017 1:43 PM

A candle was lit by Emily Morgan on February 4, 2017 1:29 PM

A candle was lit by Suzanne Kasner on February 4, 2017 11:21 AM

A candle was lit by The Garland Family on February 4, 2017 10:45 AM

A candle was lit by Dominique on February 3, 2017 7:17 PM

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A candle was lit by Prairie on February 2, 2017 2:39 PM

A candle was lit by Mom and Dad on February 2, 2017 2:39 PM

A candle was lit by Cattermole Funeral Home on February 2, 2017 9:09 AM